In the short story of Everybay Use the narrator talks about two sisters. One symbolizes following the culture of the parent and the other symbolizes following one's own identity. Finding the middle ground is earier than people may think. Just be who you are. Don't conform into who people want or think you should be.
People are not as black and white as a society would to portray them as. People have the power to be themselves and create who they want to become. A person's background does not seal their future. However their up bringing is not always their downfall. The choice of how they want to live their life is up to them. All they have to do is choose.
Most people may disagree or reject some of their parents ways. However they fail to realize they are who they are because of their parents. Whether good or bad, parents have shaped their children's lives. Although it's up to the children what they mold into. It all depends on the actions you take in life.
I, myself honor my parents be learning from the ways they taught me. On the other hand I follow my own identity by not letting it define me. Some of the aspects that I like I use in everyday life. The others I respect but discard. The third option is possible, it lies within our own hearts.
Until next time!
-Naru